Sad, confused, scared

So here we are on Sunday December 30.  I'm getting ready to go back to the lab to get more tests.  You see, early Friday morning I woke up with severe cramps.  I thought I just had to go to the bathroom.  I got up and went and just knew i was bleeding.  I called out for my husband and told him.  We called our doctors (both ivf and obgyn)  and met our ob-gyn at the hospital emergency room.  Things were not looking positive.  The ultra sound was inconclusive.  Based on his calculations i might have been off by a week and only am just now 5 weeks.  The HCG test came back right on target for someone who is almost 5 weeks.  The bleeding only lasted about 4-5 hours.  And I had a RhoGAM shot before leaving the hospital.  I've still been getting cramps if i walk too much or get too stressed. So mostly, I just lay around or walk to the kitchen and work on a puzzle or make some jewelry etc.  My husband went out to get me some things to work on while i'm at home.  By tonight i hope to know the results of the new HCG test, and pray that we are still pregnant.  There is a strong possiblity that we lost one of the embryos but after waiting so long to get pregnant I hope that we can hold on to at least one if not both.  I would really appreciate any prayers or good thoughts you all could send our way.  Thanks so much.

 

Jen

Published Sunday, December 30, 2007 7:02 AM by jrc872

Comments

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Sunday, December 30, 2007 4:55 PM

I am so sorry you are going through this. You and your husband will be in my prayers! Stay strong and stay off of your feet for a little while.

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Sunday, December 30, 2007 11:17 PM

dont be scared this happen to me with my son a few times i had a privia. i was put on bed rest since my fifth or six month.the sad part is one time i happen on my sons birthday right after his 8th birthday party and now thats all he remembers about that day..keep ur head up be strong & know that ur not alone

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Monday, December 31, 2007 10:40 AM

Stay strong!!! We're praying for you!!!

by mamania

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Tuesday, January 01, 2008 8:14 PM

Jen,

Hang in there!  I will pray for you.  Keep us posted!

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Thursday, January 24, 2008 7:32 PM

I am very sorry, that you are going through this.

But I am going through something simliar. 11 days ago I had IVF my embroy was put back and I was told to take progestrong shots every night and come in on 1/24 for a blood test. I went for the blood test and they call me and said the test was negative. I am so upset. Do this means it did not take. I am not bleeding nor I am cramping. but I would not know what can of feeling I should have if I am pregant. Can it be 2 early for the test.

please someone did this happen to you let me know

Barbara

# re: Sad, confused, scared@ Saturday, January 26, 2008 12:24 PM

I am so sorry you have to go through this...no one should.  You and your family will be in our prayers.

Shaila