Hi ladies ,  I had a m/c in aug at 6w4d.... were ttc again atm, but all i can think about is what if i hadnt had that m/c and thinking of how big my bump wud have bin now .. and woundering if i wudda felt the baby kick by now as i wud of been around 17wks now ... and also thinking what had i done wrong for me to have the m/c .... ive had a m/c b4 but this time it was different becuase i actually saw the sack when it dropped out when i was bleeding & clotting as id gone to the toilet it was awful to see .. the image just wont go away.. just really wish my baby was still growing inside me

Liam-reece  3.11.05   5lb 12oz

M/C Dec 04

M/C Aug 07

I'm sorry. I am going thru the same thing :( I m/c'd last month. I had a D&C because my body didn't want to let go :( Either did I. I would be 13 weeks now just setting up my appointment to find out if it was a boy or girl.. Now i'm just waiting for AF to return. *hugs to us* We need them.

It's tough. It always will be.   My due date with my first MC was October 5 and I always think of that child on that day.  

hi diane i know what you are going through. I have had four m/c i am pregnant for the fifth time. i thought the same thing what if ? its ok to think that you are mourning a loss. what got me through four m/c is my faith in God and my determination to have a child.  How I see it, I have four children in heaven that are my angels.   

I know what you're going through also, I'm 36 and have been trying for almost 20 yrs, my doctor told me that I don't ovulate, Well needless to say that I had a miscarriage on June 22,2007. I did not know that I was pregnant, I guess because I never thought It would happen.

But I would be about 6 months along if I would have carried it, and so far no pregnancy yet.

I took Chaste Berry (vitex) for about 1 1/2 months, that may have helped, plus I cut out the caffeine. So maybe we just need to think positive, and pray every night before going to sleep.

One day the Lord will bless us with our miracle.

Hang in there.

Sincerely

Tammy

 I had a hard time this christmas, thinking about how big my bump should have been by now and feeling the baby move. Seems like anytime one of my muscles or something in my stomach twitches I think of my baby and wish it was him. Hugs.

Hey I know excatly how you feel. I had a MC in April at 7wk and I got prego the next mnth in May. I carrried him til I was 20wks in Sep. The second pregancy was EXTREMLY hard because I had to deliver him natural. Found out that I have incompetent cervix. Its getting hard this moth cause I was due Jan.29 so I know how it feels to think where you would be in your pregancy now.