I guess my friends and I are in this "very select population." I only wish I had the bank account to show for it.
Honestly, remember that my hubby and I were married for 7 years before we started TTC and we both had careers. I was over 30 when my first child was born. I registered for a few 'pricey' items and got them (both my bassinet and stroller, for instance was totally over the top and I didn't need one that pricey or with that many features). But I also have splurged - there's always Ebay for some of these items.
It know this may sound weird, but I think there are two factors in these items - age and geography. I think that those of us who had our kids older tend to splurge on these things. And geography definitely is a factor - when Alex was born in NJ, everyone seemed to have these top of the line items. But not so much here in south central PA.
And now... should we move this to the debate forum? 