I'm so nervous. I don't know if I'm pregnant again or not. I think I'm late and I have been having some signs of preg. but I tested this morning and got a bfn. I had some  mild cramping last night. Of coarse all I can think is maybe I'm miscarrying again.  I want to be pregnant again so bad, but at the same time  I'm so scared. I keep having thoughts like, maybe I'm getting a bfn because my hcg levels aren't high enough because something is wrong. I keep trying to stay positive and hope for the best, but it's hard. Pray for me. 

 Well, AF showed her ugly face today. Guess not this month. keeping my fingers crossed for the next one.

 My prayers are definitely with you.  As for the testing negative part, I'd say give another few days and then try testing again.  You never know.  Just make sure you test first thing in the morning.  They say that your levels are at their highest when you first wake up.  Best of luck to you.

I feel for you.  My husband and I are also trying and we have 5 more days till I'm supposed to get my period again and they are taking forever.  I too feel like I have some pregnancy symptoms but I want this so badly that I could be imagining them! :) I also have great fears of losing the next baby too but I know I have to try and remain calm.  I lost my twin girls at 20 weeks to TTTS and incompetent cevix.  I will be praying for you!

Melissa

Hey Melissa.

I lost my son on Sep.24 due to incompetent cervix. I know excatly how you feel. Me and my husband is trying again to, but I have had the longest period this month. I started spotting on Jan1 and my normal flow started on the 3rd. Here it is Jan18 and I am still spotting. I have a doctors appt on Fri to see why im still spottting

I AM LIKE YOU I LOST MY BABY ON MARCH 7, 2008 I WAS 6WKS AND THE PREGNANCY WAS A TUBAL ONE IMAGINE THAT WAITED TIL I WAS 28YRS OLD TO FINALLY GET PREGNANT AND THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS WELL ME AND MY BF HAD UNPROTECTED SEX TWO DAYS BEFORE I CAME ON MY CYCLE AND I WAS WONDERING IS IT POSSIBLE FOR ME TO HAVE BECOME PREGNANT THEN OR WHAT BECAUSE WE ARE TRYING TO HAVE A BABY BECAUSE FOR THE LONGEST I THOUGHT THAT I COULD NOT HAVE KIDS BECAUSE I NEVER GOT PREGNANT BEFORE AND BELIEVE ME I WAS TRYING BUT WITH ANOTHER PERSON PLEASE HELP ME IF YOU CAN

 I'm not really sure I understand your question correctly. Do you mean you had sex two days before your period or you O? If it was before your period it's not likely, but if it was before O, then yes. Fertilityfriend.com is a really awesome sight about knowing when you're fertile and helping you understand you cycle. I hope that I answered your question right, good luck.