Hey, congrats. Anyway, with the first one you never can tell. You can always call your doc's nurse and ask her to ask him how effaced you were, but like I said, with your first you just never can tell. Some women are effaced and dialated for a month with their first. Get some rest, you are gonna need it. Also, take some walks if you want to help things along. Let us know. We are excited for you. Good luck.