"Just relax everybody says."" It will happen, just try not to think about it! "its hard not to think about the "maybe I'm pregnant this time." every little sensation you feel, the swollen breast, tender nipples, zaps in your lower abdomen, slight cramping, bloating, you think maybe this is it. All the same symptoms i felt with my first pregnancy which ended in miscarriage 10wk+3day b/c no FHT found in ultrasound.Had a D/D  ended up being a chromosomal abnormality XXY.information derived from the pathology report. This was in Nov. still TTC. 12 more days until testing. Wishing all of you going through this lots of baby dust!!! sprinkle some my way if you please :) Angie

I know how you feel. I also m/c in Nov. The waiting can drive you crazy, I thought I was pregnant every month after that until I finally was, it's pretty much impossible not to think about. Just try to pray about it and give it to God, he was definitely my comfort during that time in my life. Good luck. 

Thanx for the advice :) 

I couldn't stand to hear "just relax", or "try not to think about it". the more you try to do those things the more you think about it, right. well for me that thinking about it more and more lasted for 3 years. 1 miscairrage, 1 major surgery later, (I had to have a malignant tumor and my right ovarie removed), and 3 months of pregnancy symptoms that all turned out to be just really bad pre-menstural symptoms,  I finally just gave up,I was tired, I never wanted to take another pregnancy test again.  I accepted that we would have only one child. Thats what it took for me to not think about it. I know I'm blessed with my daughter, It wasn't easy getting pregnant with her either. She was the 5th pregnancy after 4 failed pregnancies.

Its amazing -On mothers day this year I found out. I cried in such dibelief, and as silly as it sounds after being told by a past OBGYN that a negative could mean a false negative, but a positive is never a false positive, that same day I took 3 other tests, just to convince myself. I almost didn't want to believe thatI could be pregnant, I didn't want to go through any more disapointment.

My first OB visit was like a weird dream, the nurse and OB acted like no big deal they didn't even give me a pregnancy test. They just took my word for it, and at the end of the appointment the OB did an ultra sound , and I was in awe, there it was, my beautiful baby's heartbeat, Thats when it all became real.

 So, as hard as it is to accept this advice that drives us just MAD, its good advice, do whatever it takes to fallow it. It will happen when it's meant to happen. My thoughts an prayers go out to you, Keep us posted.

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